Maria decided to book a portrait session for The Over 50 Revolution because she has friends who have participated. She said, “I saw their beauty and confidence come through in their photographs.” After her own session, she said, “It was everything I hoped it would be!”
“It is not often that older women are celebrated – our society is extremely youth oriented. Women over 50 become invisible and it is such a shame – we have so much to offer!”
When asked how she has changed since she turned 50, Maria said, “Thankfully, I have stopped obsessing about my looks; I have spent a great deal of time and money always trying to get thinner! What a waste! Now I focus on my health, and I have completely embraced the aging process.
“There is a definite freedom in getting older – I speak my mind much more frequently, but I have also become infinitely more patient. In my youth I was always rushing to the next thing in my career and education and looking for validation and love from a man.
“What I learned along the way is to slow down. Rushing to meet some ridiculous standards set by society is a tremendous waste of energy, time, and money. I have learned a lot on my journey but since turning 50; I am more circumspect and honor how far I have come and what I have accomplished. I am grateful to have made it this far.”
Growing up, Maria’s mother and aunts were her role models. “My mother is the strongest woman I know, and I admire her greatly. She is strong and caring. My mother worked hard all her life and demonstrated an amazing work ethic that I emulate. Over the years she has cared for a lot of people through sickness and has been tremendously supportive. Now it is me who has the great opportunity to support her whenever she needs it.
“My aunts provide me with opportunities to laugh. These women were raised in a time when the only thing that was expected of women was to get married, have and raise children, and keep a good home. They did so but also found ways to express themselves in a variety of interests and fostered a great sense of humor along the way. They were very influential in my upbringing.
“Now, my friends are my role models. I see them navigating through their life with grace, care, and a good sense of humor. I am very lucky to have amazing women friends!”
Maria’s advice to younger women: “Do not spend time and money worrying about your weight or looks. You might regret working so hard to meet impossible societal expectations. Instead, focus on improving your mind, your self-assuredness, and your genuine interests. People will judge – ignore them. This is YOUR journey so honor it.”
She said, “I hope to be example for other women that being a single, childless, and fiercely independent woman is perfectly acceptable. Our society has a ridiculous set of norms about women. I have broken all the rules and am happier for it.”
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